I'm married with an older man, at first it was fun. He was 40 and I was 24. After 10 years being married, let's say our sex life went downhill. I love him still, I just want to have crazy passionate sex.
I keep it low, as I do not want to hurt his feelings. So when he is out on his business trips, I have some fun.
I keep my filters set at men and women from 20-25 as I found they are more into no strings attached things, No love, no drama. Just sex.
Pros
Discreet, variety of men and women, bisexual, lesbian.